When a young bird reached a certain age of maturity his mother told him that it was time to leap from the nest high on the cliff and learn to fly. "The wind will carry you", she said.
"Why, that's suicide!", exclaimed the bird. "There is nothing but darkness below. How could you ask me to do such a thing mother? "
"Because I love you", she replied.
The young bird was having none of it. How could his mother simultaneously love him, but also desire to push him over the edge of their safe and comfortable nest? She was clearly wrong. "I shall make a nice home here for myself", he thought. "What could possibly be out there beyond this nest that I need?"
Hours turned into days, and days turned into weeks. His mother continued to feed and care for her son. He grew fat and content. Then one day she said, "I am going to leave you now. If you decide to fly I will meet you in the sky."
"But mother!", he cried. "How can you do this to me?"
"Because I love you", she replied.
Hours turned into days, and days turned into weeks. The young bird was desperate. He had not eaten for some time and his only source of water was the occasional raindrop. He fell into great despair. "If only my mother were here to take care of me", he lamented. "I will soon die if she doesn't come back."
She did not come back.
On the verge of death the young bird realized that his nest; his safe haven would soon be his grave. "I have nothing to lose so I will leap from this nest!", he exclaimed. So he spread his wings and leapt to certain death in the great unknown below. The wind rushed past his face and he prepared for the end.
But no end came.
The rushing wind flowed under his outstretched wings and lifted him to new heights. He soared through the air. The darkness below was replaced by a lush valley full of life. "It is beautiful", he breathed. He saw his mother in the distance.
She flew to him, her heart overjoyed. He then realized that she had not wanted to hurt him. She had only wanted him to experience life soaring through the air—not a safe life, but a glorious life worth living.